However, there will be people who say, ‘Why is this person so serious and self-important?’ If it seems like pretension, it’s only because I don’t have complete confidence in the principles that I’ve learned and espouse. I still fear for my own frailty. [25] But grant me the confidence, and I will show you the right look and bearing; then you will see the finished statue all bright and gleaming. [26] And don’t expect a study in smugness. After all, the Zeus at Olympia does not project an air of hauteur. He looks at us right in the eye – just the way one ought to look when on the point of saying: ‘My word is true and irrevocable.’
Discourses 2.8.24
Today’s meditation
The underlying Stoic issue in this passage is the importance of confidence in one's principles and values. As Epictetus notes, "If it seems like pretension, it's only because I don't have complete confidence in the principles that I've learned and espouse" (Discourses 2.8.24). This reveals that true confidence is not about projecting an image, but about being grounded in one's convictions.
The passage also highlights the distinction between genuine confidence and pretension. Epictetus says, "Grant me the confidence, and I will show you the right look and bearing" (Discourses 2.8.25), suggesting that when one is truly confident, their demeanor will naturally reflect it. This is exemplified by the image of the Zeus at Olympia, which "does not project an air of hauteur" (Discourses 2.8.26), but instead looks at us with a sense of calm authority.
To apply this insight today, one might reflect on areas where they feel uncertain or lacking in confidence. Are there principles or values that they are still questioning or struggling to embody? By examining these areas and working to clarify their convictions, they can begin to cultivate a deeper sense of confidence and authenticity.
As Epictetus implies, this confidence is not about projecting a certain image, but about being true to oneself and one's values. So, the practical guidance for today might be to focus on building confidence from within, rather than trying to project it outwardly. This could involve taking small steps to act in accordance with one's values, even if it feels uncomfortable or uncertain at first.
What is one area of your life where you feel a lack of confidence, and how might you take a small step today to build confidence in your principles and values?