If an action or utterance is appropriate, then it’s appropriate for you. Don’t be put off by other people’s comments and criticism. If it’s right to say or do it, then it’s the right thing for you to do or say.
The others obey their own lead, follow their own impulses. Don’t be distracted. Keep walking. Follow your own nature, and follow Nature—along the road they share.
Meditations 5.3
Today’s meditation
The underlying Stoic issue here is the potential for external validation to dictate our actions and decisions. In Meditations 5.3, Marcus Aurelius advises us to focus on what is right, rather than being swayed by "other people's comments and criticism."
This passage reveals that living well involves staying true to our own nature and values, rather than being distracted by the opinions of others. As Marcus Aurelius says, "Follow your own nature, and follow Nature—along the road they share." This suggests that our actions should align with our inner principles and the natural order of things.
To apply this insight today, one might ask themselves: "What actions or decisions am I putting off or modifying due to fear of criticism or desire for approval?" By recognizing and letting go of the need for external validation, we can focus on what is truly important and right, and take action accordingly.
As we navigate our daily lives, we can remind ourselves to "keep walking" on our own path, rather than being swayed by the opinions of others. This requires a sense of self-awareness, courage, and commitment to our values. By following our own nature and the natural order, we can cultivate a sense of inner strength and wisdom that guides us in living well.
What is one decision or action you have been putting off due to fear of criticism, and how might you take a step towards it today, despite potential external opinions?