‘Who was Hector’s father?’
‘Priam.’
‘Who were his brothers?’
‘Alexander and Deiphobus.’
‘And who was their mother?’
‘Hecuba. Or so I’ve read.’
‘Where?’
‘In Homer. But I believe Hellanicus, too, has written on these very same questions, and there may be one or two others...’
Discourses 2.19.7
Today’s meditation
The underlying Stoic issue here is the distinction between essential knowledge and trivial information. In Discourses 2.19.7, Epictetus highlights the futility of accumulating unnecessary knowledge, as illustrated by the conversation about Hector's family.
This passage reveals that living well is not about amassing trivial information, but rather about focusing on what is truly important. As Epictetus implies, one should prioritize wisdom and virtue over mere knowledge. "Who was Hector's father?" is a question that, while interesting, does not contribute to living a good life.
To apply this insight today, consider what truly matters in your life. Ask yourself: "What are my values and priorities?" Focus on cultivating virtues such as self-control, resilience, and compassion, rather than accumulating unnecessary knowledge.
As you go about your day, notice when you are tempted to engage in trivial pursuits or conversations. Gently redirect your attention to what is truly important, and ask yourself: "Is this contributing to my well-being and the well-being of others?" By doing so, you will be living in accordance with Stoic principles, prioritizing wisdom and virtue over mere knowledge.
What is one thing you can let go of today to focus on what truly matters?