Someone asked, ‘But how do we know what is in keeping with our character?’
Well, how does the bull realize its own strength, rushing out to protect the whole herd when a lion attacks? The possession of a particular talent is instinctively sensed by its owner; [31] so if any of you are so blessed you will be the first to know it. [32] It is true, however, that no bull reaches maturity in an instant, nor do men become heroes overnight. We must endure a winter training, and can’t be dashing into situations for which we aren’t yet prepared.
Discourses 1.2.30
Today’s meditation
The underlying Stoic issue here is self-awareness and personal growth. According to Epictetus, "The possession of a particular talent is instinctively sensed by its owner" (Discourses 1.2.31). This passage reveals that living well involves recognizing and developing one's unique strengths and character.
It suggests that we should trust our instincts and acknowledge our abilities, just as a bull instinctively knows its strength. However, it also cautions that maturity and heroism are not achieved overnight, requiring "a winter training" (Discourses 1.2.32) - a period of endurance and preparation.
To apply this insight today, one might reflect on their values and strengths, asking themselves: What are my unique talents and abilities? Am I using them to live in accordance with my character? What challenges can I undertake to develop my strengths, even if it means enduring difficulties or uncertainties?
By embracing this perspective, individuals can focus on cultivating their inner qualities, rather than comparing themselves to others or seeking external validation. As Epictetus implies, true growth and self-awareness arise from trusting one's instincts and persevering through challenges.