Stoic Sage

The underlying Stoic issue here is the recognition of what is truly within our control. In Discourses 4.1.101, Epictetus reminds us that everything we have is not truly ours, but rather given to us for a time. He cautions against resisting the natural order of things, as it is "stupid to oppose one who is stronger than I, but more importantly, it would be wrong." This passage reveals that living well involves acknowledging and accepting the impermanence of things. It highlights the importance of recognizing that our possessions, relationships, and even our lives are all subject to the whims of fate. As Epictetus notes, "If he gives he also takes away." This understanding can help us cultivate a sense of detachment and gratitude for what we have, rather than clinging to it out of a sense of ownership or entitlement. To apply this insight today, one might reflect on their own attachments and desires. Ask yourself: What am I holding onto too tightly? What am I resisting or trying to control that is ultimately outside of my power? By letting go of these attachments and accepting the natural order of things, we can live more freely and virtuously. As Epictetus suggests, we should "keep them in the spirit they were given, for as long as possible." This means appreciating and using the things we have been given, without becoming overly attached to them. What is one thing you are holding onto today that you could practice letting go of, even if only slightly?