‘If you have been placed in a position above others, are you automatically going to behave like a despot? Remember who you are and whom you govern – that they are kinsmen, brothers by nature, fellow descendants of Zeus.’
Discourses 1.13.4
Today’s meditation
The underlying Stoic issue here is the responsible use of power and position. As Epictetus reminds us, "Remember who you are and whom you govern – that they are kinsmen, brothers by nature, fellow descendants of Zeus" (Discourses 1.13.4). This passage reveals that living well involves recognizing the inherent kinship and equality of all individuals, regardless of social status or position.
This insight suggests that when we are in a position of authority or influence, we should not let it corrupt our behavior or lead us to treat others as inferior. Instead, we should approach our relationships with humility, empathy, and a sense of shared humanity. As Epictetus implies, our position is not a justification for despotic behavior, but rather an opportunity to serve and lead with wisdom and compassion.
To apply this insight today, consider how you interact with others, particularly those in subordinate or vulnerable positions. Ask yourself: Am I treating others with the respect and dignity they deserve, regardless of their status or position? Am I using my influence to uplift and support others, or am I allowing my ego or self-interest to guide my actions? By reflecting on these questions and striving to live in accordance with the principles of humility and kinship, you can cultivate a more virtuous and compassionate approach to your relationships and responsibilities.
As you go about your day, remember that every interaction is an opportunity to embody the values of empathy, kindness, and wisdom. How will you choose to use your position and influence to make a positive impact on those around you?